The up side to all this bad behavior is I learned she really does remember things longer than I thought she did and so when she was told she would get no treats for the next day because she spit all her food out she actually understood and lo and behold the child devoured her meal the next night.
There's hope right? The fact that she has decided to go back to diapers after she was fully potty trained for like a whole month will just be temporary right? Until then I will have little day dreams of some minature drill sergeant standing over her making her do push-ups. I may not win mother of the year, oh well.